32 Pieces Of Clothing And Accessories Reviewers In Their 40s Love
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"My daughter stole mine and I had to buy another pair. She is 27, I am 49. These jeans rock a multitude of generations and body types."
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Promising reviews: "My favorite jeans of all time. High waisted Levi’s are so comfy, so high quality, so adorable…my daughter stole mine and I had to buy another pair. She is 27, I am 49. These jeans rock a multitude of generations and body types. The dark wash is my favorite and they are a thick denim, cool button fly and not much stretch. Levi’s will never go out of style." —patrice hedrick
"Was debating on whether to return these but the wash is unique! The more I wear them, the more I love them. I’m in my 40s and I feel like these look timeless and vintage all at the same time." —Jbj
Get it from Amazon for $31.73+ (available in sizes 22–39 and 15 styles).
Promising review: "I have now bought four pairs of these. They look like 'real' jeans (the material is woven, not knit) but the elastic waist makes them extra comfortable. I'm in my forties, I've had two kids, and I usually wear an 18 in jeans. I'm an 18 in these. I have gotten the long inseam on them all, and it hits the top of my foot. I can roll it up for a shorter/summer look. I like them more snug. Wear/care: I wash these in cold and dry them in the dryer. If they shrunk at all, it wasn't noticeable. Cons: the only thing these are missing is front pockets, but for this price and for how much I love them, it isn't a dealbreaker. There are functional back pockets that can hold my phone." —A. Mather
Get it from Amazon for $9.38+ (available in sizes 2–28, three inseams, and 19 colors).
They're durable too! I've been wearing these since the beginning of *last* summer, so I can personally vouch for the fact that they'll last more than one season. In fact, if anything they feel even *better* this year because they're so molded to my feet, and, upon closer inspection of my shoes, I don't see any fraying or other indication that these won't continue to last for some time!
Promising review: "I have high arches and have developed something like plantar fasciitis now that I'm in my mid-40s. Didn't want to spend the money on the comparable Birkenstocks, even though I highly trust that brand. So glad I tried these first! Can't believe the price. And when I can't stand being barefoot or any other shoes...these are my go-to. Wonderful!" —DB
Get them from Amazon for $14.99+ (available in sizes 5–12, including wide sizes, and 20 styles).
Promising review: "This is SO cute! I’m 5’5” — also of note, I’m in my mid-40s. I ordered a small and it fits great. I love it so much I wanted to be sure it got 5 stars. It looks more like linen, but without the wrinkle factor. Really nice material. It’s supposed to be baggy but it is super cute, and I feel great in it. As mentioned, I’m in my 40s. I wanted something comfy but not frumpy, something that wouldn’t embarrass my kids, but my husband would like too. This is perfect. The navy is brighter than a normal navy, but it’s a beautiful dark blue." —Amazon Customer
Get it from Amazon for $27.99 (available in sizes S–3XL and in 15 colors).
Promising reviews: "A good fit for a mom of two in her 40s. No bra needed with the navy flower print. I thought it was a good casual and comfortable dress, but my husband said 'damn!' when he opened the door so it was more of a winner than I thought! LOL." —Jessica S
"I love the shape this dress gives me, and it makes your cleavage look amazing. There's extra fabric left on the side boobs for me, but if you are full-breasted it might look better on you. I didn't need a slip for mine and the length is comfortable for my nerves. The fabric is sturdy but light enough for mid-summer. If you're looking for a dress that is a bit different and sexy...this is your dress!!" —Sarah Fischer
Get it from Amazon for $39.99 (available in sizes S–XL and 17 colors).
And just what is Contour+ technology? It's Naturalizer's signature open-cell foam cushioning that's designed to conform to your foot's contours so you can walk pain-free all day long.
Promising reviews: "Soft cushion on the heel. Beautiful color, not too high, but good for an evening out since I don’t usually wear heels anymore in my late 40s. At 25, I could have worn these all day. I have a wider, shorter foot, and a 7.5 fits my wider foot fine. This was worth the extra money for a quality heel I can use many times." —AS
Get them from Amazon for $109.95 (available in sizes 4–13, including wide and narrow sizes, and 42 styles).
Note that some reviewers mention these run small, so consider sizing up if you're not sure which size to get.
Promising reviews: "These pants as so comfortable and flowy! I stepped outside of my usual skinny-jean outfit to try this style — and I never want to take them off! They are great casual pants for work, and can be dressed up for the evening with a fancy shirt and heels. They are as comfortable as pajamas, without looking like it." —Nash
"I got these in red to wear to DisneyWorld. They arrived better than expected. These pants are a flowy, heavier rayon/poly, wider legs, with a bit of structure at the waist. Since there's no stretch, I ordered up a size. I should have stayed with my usual size though, because ordering a size up makes them longer in length and I'm barely 5'4. They are warm enough with tights underneath for January mornings at Disney in Florida, but light enough for late spring in Japan. For reference I'm a 42-year-old mother, usually wear 0-2 pants [and ordered a small]." —Mrs. 髙﨑
Get it from Amazon for $14.99+ (available in sizes XS–2X, including short sizes, and 30 styles).
These tend to fit small due to the compression, so you may want to size up in these, especially if you're usually between sizes. I have these exact leggings and am usually between a medium and large, and the large fits me comfortably with just the right level of tightness!
BuzzFeed Shopping editor Heather Braga says, "I splurged on these, and I don't know why I waited so long! They're super soft on the inside, edgy on the outside, and just freakin' fabulous. I love pairing them with an oversized sweater for a look that's stylish but still cozy during the winter, and wearing them with a denim jacket and a graphic tee in spring and fall."
Promising reviews: "A 40-year-old here...these are amazing. I ordered a size small, and was afraid because they looked soooo small out of the bag, but let me tell you, they [look great]. Sooo in love with these!!!" —Leslie P.
"I absolutely love these and I am so glad I added them to my wardrobe. I dress them with a blouse and heels, T-shirt and tennis shoes, or button-up and flat. There's so many possibilities. I love the look and feel. The support is amazing. I'm 42-years-old." —Vera M.
Get it from Spanx for $98 (available in sizes XS–3X, and petite, regular, and tall lengths).
Promising reviews: "A dress that celebrates a woman's shape/age. The length is amazing: short in the front and longer in the back so you can bend over without flashing the world, and the front is long enough so you can sit comfortably. This dress is super sexy, but [still conservative enough for me]. Got a TON of compliments from men and women all night. PS: I am 41 years old and this dress is still appropriate for my age but also would look super cute on a 20-something-year-old girl. Very versatile." —Cree Cree
"Wow! I love this dress! I am 40, and this dress looks amazing. It’s a thick fabric, compression-like, but comfortable. I am 5'1 and it fits perfectly above the knee. I am a 36 DD/DDD and the top fits great. I purchased the medium and will definitely be buying in another color." —L.I
Get it from Amazon for $35.99 (available in sizes S–XL and in 12 colors).
Promising review: "I'm 47, a size 8-10, and ordered a medium. I'm so happy I bought these pants. I wasn't sure at first, but they are perfect for what I wanted. I wanted comfy pants for home but stylish enough to wear out if I wanted. I didn't get them to work out in, I'm sure you could if you wanted to but I didn't want to ruin them with workout sweat lol." —Chastity Adams
Get it from Amazon for $28.99+ (available in sizes XS–3XL and 22 colors).
Promising review: "I'm STUNNED. I’m a 40-year-old mom and wear 40DDD. You know these girls don’t stay up without help. These pics are shirt only, no other bra under it. I could actually wear this in public as is and feel supported and comfy." —Amanda
Get it from Amazon for $22.99+ (available in sizes XS–3XL and 29 colors).
I have these!! As someone with a bigger butt, hips, and thighs but a smaller waist, it can be *so* hard to find running shorts that are comfortable, both in terms of how they feel on your body and wearing out in public. These don't ride up much at all, and I love the little pocket for my keys, phone, etc. They're soft, stretchy, and keep my stomach supported — no chafing either!
Promising review: "I’ve struggled with thigh chafing all my life. I’m now 45. I just went on hot humid 3-mile run and complete comfort with no ride up. Ordering in all colors and tossing my old running shorts!" —Amazon Customer
Get it from Amazon for $19.99+ (available in sizes XS–3XL, three lengths, and tons of styles).
Promising review: "Well made, accurate sizing, and CUTE! Every influencer was right, this was a perfect fit! I’m in my 40s. Comfortable to get on and wear! I ordered my usual size with no problem and the suit came in quickly." —Sabian
Get it from Amazon for $9.99+ (available in sizes 4–18 and 36 styles).
A lot of runners and athletes also swear by these for training and races, since it's a guarantee their shoes won't come untied (and it also helps distribute the tension through the entire top of your foot, preventing localized injuries for longer runs!). You can also adjust the tension easily if your feet are more swollen on a particular day.
Promising review: "Purchased two pairs for my running shoes (49-year-old male). They work very well, have put a bunch of miles on them. No more tying/untying, just slip on. I like how they keep unified tension across the entire laces from top to bottom. I have had no issues with the lace lock at all, it snapped in well." —Scott
Get it from Amazon for $9.99 (available in 13 colors).
These have the American Podiatric Medical Association Seal of Acceptance, which is granted to products found to promote good foot health!
Promising review: "200 dollars for tennis shoes and inserts — my feet hurt. [Paid way less] for cute flip-flops and my feet felt FANTASTIC! I walked on average 6 miles per day, and my plantar and spurs NEVER hurt AT ALL!! Best investment ever! I'm in my late 40s and overweight — highly recommend for anyone with plantar and/or spur issues!" —Amy1970
Get them from Amazon for $30.99 (available in sizes 0–11 and 19 colors).
They're ideal for overnight protection (you can pair them with a pad if you have a heavy flow) and for people who are worried about leakage during sports or physical activities. Also, unlike your regular undies, you don't have to scrub the blood out of these. They're designed so it rinses right out in the sink with soap and warm water and can get tossed in the washer and dryer from there.
Promising review: "I am a 40-year-old mom of three and these panties have been an absolute game-changer for me. I have had what I consider to be 'normal' periods until the last few months and things have begun to pick up. I can still wear one pair of panties all day, throw it in the wash at night and be good for the next day. I have two pairs and they have lasted me 18 months with no change in absorbency that I can tell. My daughter just started her period and loves hers as well! Great quality and so convenient. No real smell or wet feeling. They absorb really well!" —mommy2mali
Get a three-pack from Amazon for $14.99+ (available in sizes XXS–3X and various packs).
BuzzFeed Shopping writer Emma Lord says, "I own these, which is why I can very confidently vouch for the 'wedgie-proofness' of them. They are snug and comfy and truly don't budge, even though I am very squirm-y and change positions on the couch every eight minutes. These are also phenomenal for running and workouts, if you're looking for undies that will stay in place for those, too! The lining is thin enough that you can barely see them under leggings."
Promising review: "Look, I'm in my 40s now and a little curvy and I need underwear that fits and does not ride up in crevices every time I move or be so big I have to tuck them into my pants waist. This underwear fits perfectly and they are comfortable. They stay in place and do not look like granny panties." —Wife/Mom/Friend
Get a set of five from Amazon for $12.99+ (available in sizes S–5XL and nine color combos).
Promising reviews: "I love the fabric and the fit. I'm 48-years-old, and when I tried these on, my daughters exclaimed, 'Who's she?' 'Wow mom!' and other niceties. These pants made me feel good. I think they could dress up or down. They're quite comfortable. I wore them to work and got compliments from each of my three coworkers. I will definitely being buying more in other colors. They're cute as can be." —Redd =)
Get them from Amazon for $36.99 (available in sizes XS–3XL and 24 colors).
Promising reviews: "Taking preventative measures for this 45-year-old's eyeballs. If I can take a small step to prevent my 'balls from taking any unnecessary blue light off the computer and phone, which I gaze at as the day is long...why not try and hopefully I've made a good choice here. I do really like how they look on me. Nerdy but sexpot at the same time." —ashley miller
"At 36 years old with historically 20/20 vision, I thought my eyes were aging and I needed reading glasses. Then my mom pointed out that I was squinting at my computer specifically. Turns out, I just can’t handle the blue light at night. Got these glasses, and BAM! Problem solved. Now my whole face can relax when I use my computer at night. My other devices have a nighttime setting that changed everything to a yellow light, but my computer doesn’t have that option, and these glasses are perfect." —Sarahshmara
Get a set of two from Amazon for $16.98 (available in 12 color combos and three-packs).
Promising review: "I am always misplacing my glasses. I used to joke that I needed one of those chains for them so I wouldn’t lose them at night when we are watching TV. I’m only in my 40s, but I’m constantly having to look for my glasses. I thought about getting a chain for them to solve the problem, but I was worried I wouldn’t find anything that wouldn’t make me look like an old librarian. Surprisingly, I came across these. They look exactly as pictured on the screen. They are dainty and pretty, but still get the job done. I would definitely order these again if I was in need of another." —Phoenix Tyler
Get it from Amazon for $6.99 (available in four styles).
Promising reviews: "Adorable dress at an amazing price! Normally dresses won’t fit my waist if they fit my hips, but this one is cut great. Perfect length for this 45-year-old mama. And no cleavage showing. Very comfortable." —kp
"I’ve never ordered a dress online, but the price and reviews were too good...and I agree! I was looking for a modern Gwen Stefani 'Don’t Speak' dress and this fit the bill! I live in Houston, Texas, where it’s hot as HELL and this fabric will be perfect. It’s not see-through and comes with a cute, matching, fabric tie belt." —Danielle Selner
Get it from Amazon for $27.35+ (available in sizes S–XL and in 19 colors).
Promising reviews: "These are my new favorite shoes. I'm over 40 with tired sore feet and these are sooo comfortable and stylish enough for me to still have a lil' flavor in my style!! I own two colors (gray suede and black python) and now I want them all!! Worth the money. True to size for me." —Karisa
"Travel tested and approved — LOVE!! My hairdresser friend recommended these since she’s always on her feet. They were so reasonable so I ordered them for my South Africa honeymoon trip. They were INCREDIBLE!!! My feet never hurt, and I walked a ton of miles in them. They also went with a ton of outfits, so I was very happy!!! I highly recommend!" —Leah Gwin Hoefling
Get it from Amazon for $50 (available in sizes 5–13, including wide sizes, and in 26 designs).
Promising reviews: "I am 40, and sometimes buying more on-trend clothes is intimidating as you never know how it will look on a more mature body structure. I was nervous, but so happy I got this sweatshirt. It is so soft and cozy. It is cropped but still hits the hips in the right spot." —Weiseones
Get it from Amazon for $34.99 (available in sizes S–XXL and 17 colors).
Promising review: "I am in my forties and was recently diagnosed with osteoarthritis in my hands and feet. Total bummer. I don’t want to take medication unless absolutely necessary, so I have been searching out other forms of relief from the pain and stiffness. I added these compression gloves to the mix, and they are very helpful. The gloves have a good range of motion and provide great compression support. They have been especially helpful when I do yard work, and I also plan to use them for an interior painting project. It’s very hot where I live, so I don’t currently wear them every day. However, I know I will wear them frequently during fall and winter. Highly recommend for anyone looking for medication alternatives to arthritis!" —cb4iast8
Get a pair from Amazon for $9.97 (available in four sizes).
Promising review: "I'm in my late 40s and I have been experiencing plantar fasciitis since the beginning of 2020. I spent money on gel arch supports and heel inserts specifically for plantar fasciitis. The inserts have kept me from dying, but the heel pain is still around — so much so that when I get up in the mornings, it takes a bit for me to walk 'normal' due to the pain. I couldn't put up with it anymore, and two days ago, I researched Amazon for the highest-rated 'plantar fasciitis' solution and found these socks. I put them on immediately (not tight at all). I was sitting for about an hour doing some work on the computer then got up to do some things around the house. I was SHOCKED (I'm not kidding about my reaction) that the pain was barely there. I got up 'quickly' and walked as if the heels of my feet had not been killing me but only two hours earlier! I'd say that the improvement from pain to less pain so far is at about 60% better — maybe even higher." —Patita
Get a pair from Amazon for $14.95 (available in four sizes and 10 colors).
Promising review: "These are the ones I have been searching for! I have not been sweating at all since I started wearing them (I'm 49 and get hot flashes during the night) or at least waking up with damp clothes. The only thing I don't like is that they take forever to air dry because of the pocket construction. Other than that they seem well made and are super comfortable! I'm getting a second pair so I can rotate them for plenty of drying time." —Greg Ruth
Get them from Amazon for $18.99+ (available in sizes S–4XL and 20 colors).
Promising reviews: "This product gets a triple A+! And I'm a tough critic. I bought the dark gray as a gift for a 40-something mother. She was THRILLED. So much so that I bought the light green for Valentines Day and am going to pick up more colors for future special days. The fit is like tailor-made, true to size. The length is just right, not too long like in the product pictures. Construction is flawless. Fabric is comfy and durable. Have rarely been this thrilled with a clothing product. I would have expected to pay at least three times the price." —NSF
"This outfit is something else! I’m three weeks post-endometriosis surgery and am still wear these every day, this is why now I have four sets. Would buy every color if I could. Acceptable as outside clothes (I’ve driven carpool) and as pajamas. If I get cold I wear the duster, if I get hot I take it off. It’s a win-win. These are ribbed and soft material. I am 43-years-old, 5'9 (perfect length for taller gals)." —Kristen Sawdust
Get it from Amazon for $39.88 (available in sizes XS–XXL and in 19 colors).
Note that while some thick-haired reviewers love these, others say they're relatively small and better suited for thinner hair. (Psst — for some more thick hair-friendly options, check out these cute hair accessories!)
Promising review: "I never would have believed that these work as well as they do! I have thick, heavy hair. I've used all types of hair things in my life (40+ years old). Most give me a headache, fall out, or just aren't strong enough. These tiny little things hold ALL day and don't pinch or tug. I'm a convert! Definitely going to buy more in different colors." —S W
Get a pack of four from Amazon for $5.99 (available in three sets).
Psst: They're machine-washable.
Promising reviews: "Honest review: I'm 45 and have always worn heels or fashion-type sandals, but due to pretty extensive injuries, I needed to change that and decided to try these. I was nervous they wouldn't look good, but I love them! Still cute and so comfortable, and I didn't have to break them in. They would look good with jeans and a dress; I tried with both." —c
Get them from Amazon for $39.38+ (available in sizes 5–12, including wide sizes, and 10 styles).
Promising reviews: "Great fit and superb comfort! They’re super cute, and they look great on me at the age of 44. Everyone I come across thinks that they look super cute. I wear shoes from an 8.5 to 9, most times closer to a 9. For this shoe, I got the 9, and it fits perfectly." —Renee
"I have horrible back pain if I don’t wear the right shoes, but these were perfect. Super cute and stylish with a doable price. It took no time to break in the shoe for me and I walked about 15–20 miles a day in them." —Loves Shoes!
Get them from Amazon for $35.28+ (available in sizes 5–12, wide sizes, and three colors).
BuzzFeed Shopping editor Heather Braga says, "I have these leggings and can confirm they are soft, not too thick, and are not at all see through. In fact, the only thing I asked for a few Christmases ago was three pairs of these leggings — and urged my mom to get them for my sisters as well. I'm a big fan!"
Promising review: "I love these Satina leggings. I first purchased the capri type in the summer. They are very breathable and super stretchy and form-fitting. It's like walking around naked. What I really want to talk about is how soft they are. O M G !!!!! Sometimes I will just find myself rubbing my legs... sooooooo soft!!!!! I own both sizes available. Both fit! I prefer the larger size as I am a 43-year-old mother of two. I opt for the smaller size when I'm wearing a more form-fitting top." —Nicchi
Get it from Amazon for $14.99 (available in one size (S–L) and plus size (XL–XXL), in three styles, and in 25 colors).
This would also look so cute with the pull-on Levi's jeans mentioned earlier!
Promising reviews: "Long enough to cover your rear. Pair with a killer pair of ankle booties and a long necklace and it’s ready for a night out for the 40-something-year-old." —Amazon Customer
"Honestly, one of the best Amazon purchases I’ve made to date. And that’s saying a lot because I basically buy everything I own from here. I’m not proud of it...but ya girl is busy. Buy the sweater. Thank me later. This is such a nice-fitting, high-quality top for the price. An Instagram influencer I follow posted about this sweater so I decided to give it a shot — so glad I did!" —Leah
Get it from Amazon for $28.49+ (available in sizes XS–XL and in 29 colors).
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Promising reviews:my daughter stole mine and I had to buy another pair. She is 27, I am 49. These jeans rock a multitude of generations and body types.I’m in my 40s and I feel like these look timeless and vintage all at the same time.Promising reviewThey look like 'real' jeansThere are functional back pockets that can hold my phone.Promising review: I have high arches and have developed something like plantar fasciitis now that I'm in my mid-40s.Promising review:It looks more like linen, but without the wrinkle factor. Really nice material.As mentioned, I’m in my 40s. I wanted something comfy but not frumpyPromising reviews:The fabric is sturdy but light enough for mid-summer. If you're looking for a dress that is a bit different and sexy...this is your dress!!Promising reviews: Beautiful color, not too high, but good for an evening out Promising reviews:I stepped outside of my usual skinny-jean outfit to try this style — and I never want to take them off!They are warm enough with tights underneath for January mornings at Disney in Florida, but light enough for late spring in JapanFor reference I'm a 42-year-old motherThey're super soft on the inside, edgy on the outside, and just freakin' fabulous. Promising reviewsSooo in love with these!!!I dress them with a blouse and heels, T-shirt and tennis shoes, or button-up and flat. There's so many possibilities.Promising reviews:The length is amazingThis dress is super sexyIt’s a thick fabric, compression-like, but comfortable. Promising review I wanted comfy pants for home but stylish enough to wear out if I wanted. Promising review:Promising review:Promising reviewI’m in my 40s. Comfortable to get on and wear!Promising review:I like how they keep unified tension across the entire laces from top to bottom.Promising review:rinses right out in the sink with soap and warm waterPromising review:These are also phenomenal for running and workoutsPromising review:They stay in place and do not look like granny panties.Promising reviews:I'm 48-years-old, and when I tried these on, my daughters exclaimed, 'Who's she?' 'Wow mom!'Promising reviews:Taking preventative measures for this 45-year-old's eyeballs. I thought my eyes were aging and I needed reading glasses. Turns out, I just can’t handle the blue light at night. Got these glasses, and BAM! Problem solved.Promising review:I’m only in my 40s, but I’m constantly having to look for my glasses.They are dainty and pretty, but still get the job done.Promising reviews:Adorable dress at an amazing price! the price and reviews were too good...and I agree!Promising reviews: I'm over 40 with tired sore feet and these are sooo comfortable and stylish enough for me to still have a lil' flavor in my style!! Travel tested and approved My feet never hurt, and I walked a ton of miles in them.Promising reviews:Promising reviewI added these compression gloves to the mix, and they are very helpful. The gloves have a good range of motion and provide great compression support.Highly recommend for anyone looking for medication alternatives to arthritis!Promising review:when I get up in the mornings, it takes a bit for me to walk 'normal' due to the pain.. I was SHOCKED (I'm not kidding about my reaction) that the pain was barely therePromising review:I have not been sweating at all since I started wearing them (I'm 49 and get hot flashes during the night)I'm getting a second pair so I can rotate them for plenty of drying timePromising reviews:I bought the dark gray as a gift for a 40-something mother. She was THRILLED. Construction is flawless. Fabric is comfy and durableI’m three weeks post-endometriosis surgery and am still wear these every day, this is why now I have four sets.Promising review:These tiny little things hold ALL day and don't pinch or tug. I'm a convert! Promising reviews: Promising reviews:Great fit and superb comfort! They’re super cute, and they look great on me at the age of 44.I have horrible back pain if I don’t wear the right shoes, but these were perfect.Promising review:They are very breathable and super stretchy and form-fitting. It's like walking around naked. Promising reviews:Pair with a killer pair of ankle booties and a long necklace and it’s ready for a night outone of the best Amazon purchases I’ve made to date. This is such a nice-fitting, high-quality top for the price.